I've actually had people ask him How Do I Do It? I always pause and try not to smirk too obviously when I answer - Do what??
It's simple. I revert to my most basic instict. That of a Project Manager. Seriously. Yes. Throw out all those feel good books about motherhood and approach the process with the color coded precision of a Gantt Chart.
I suggest a color coded, white board calendar that is updated on an almost daily basis.
Hallmark has created these wonderful cards called Edge of Motherhood. Obviously, I could have worked as a consultant on them. The above image is from one of their cards.